Episode 091: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 30, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors with special guest Susan Ball Susan Bell, an expert in narcissist relationships, shared her expertise on this subject today. She also shared her told her personal experience. A narcissist: is super complimentary and immediately in love with you says all exes were super bitchy and loves to talk bad about them wants to marry you will want to move away from your friends and family of course, calls you sweetie or baby etc, just like all the women in his past. You are now one of many before you. wants children and now you become stay at home Mom , lucky you! goes out whenever he wants but not you. He’s cheating he will spend time on dating sights in public/n front of people he pretends to be an adoring husband but behind closed doors will beat you if you don’t give him sex very abusive verbally and put you down and makes fun of you And last but not least, is an out and out liar So Susan, I am looking forward to your Part 2 and learning more. You did leave us on what I call “A Cliffhanger” Each week Mom-nonymous shares her

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Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset

By Help Person|October 9, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Meet Estelle Gibson, CPA, Speaker, Financial & Business Coach, and Author of the upcoming book Manage Your Money, Master Your Money Mindset – 5 Steps on the Journey to Create the Business of Your Dreams. Estelle shares how her personal experience has led her helping others break free from financial dependency. Learn some of her powerful money strategies help you to move past fear, confusion, and self-sabotage so you can create the life of your dreams both in and out of relationships. SPECIAL OFFER: Free money archetype assessment http://www.journey-to-freedom.com/sma-quiz.html Links: Website: www.journey-to-freedom.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/journey2freedom Twitter: @j2freedom LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/journey2freedom/ Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:07 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast episode 88. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 and I’m the boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Welcome back to another wonderful week of… The Boyfriend: 00:00:14 Divorce Leanne: 00:00:17 Awesome. They just keep rolling. Rolling. Rolling. The Boyfriend: 00:00:22 Yes. They just keep happening. That’s how time works. Leanne: 00:00:24 You’re not going to go with me on that song are you? The Boyfriend: 00:00:25 No. I’m not doing it. Leanne: 00:00:27 Leave a girl hanging. Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate,

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Episode 086: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|September 25, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 086: When a divorced family is all you know with special guest Gianmarco Soresi I found a real insight to children of divorce with Gianmarco Soresi. His parents divorced when he was one week old. He endured years of going back and forth between them. His Dad has various girlfriends while Gianmarco was growing up. He’d be kinda nice as kids warm up. On holidays and birthdays Gianmarco always got extra presents. His Mom remarried right after the divorce. As a matter of fact, she married his Dad’s lawyer. His stepfather was strict compared to his Dad who.had the party house. His parents set up a schedule for him throughout the years. There was always a place to be. While attending college Gianmarco dated the same girl all four years with an an agreement that after graduation they would part ways. However they did still date and collaborated on writing a play together. The play was about relationships. Gianmarco wanted to perform it with her, but she moved on and married another guy. Gianmarco continues his dream and cast the play with someone else and his ex is having a baby. He’s performed the play and received rave reviews  — and continues to do so. Today Gianmarco does comedy and dates. He’s

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Episode 085: Overcoming The Pain Of Infidelity

By Help Person|September 18, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 085: Overcoming The Pain Of Infidelity with special guest Teri Lynn Wilkins If you’ve been cheated on or if you’ve been the cheater, you know the pain and long-term affects it has on your life. What if you could turn it around and make it a positive? Our guest this week can just do that! Teri Lynn Wilkins is a 15 year veteran Life Coach and her specialty is cheating, infidelity, and betrayal. Teri’s clients are courageous women who transcend betrayal to become the authentic, passionate, and strong women they’ve always wanted to be. Teri Lynn shares her own personal story and how she’s gone from being the villain and the victim to a thriving life coach helping others turn their lives around. Full Transcript: Leanne : 00:07 Welcome to life lafter divorce podcast, episode 85. I am your host, Leanne Linsky. Welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. Break up! The Boyrfriend: 00:21 Is a fall week of divorce better than the summer. Leanne: 00:25 I was trying to rhyme something break up and make up or something. But yeah, I guess it just keeps getting better. You know The Boyfriend: 00:31 the fall is a beautiful season. Leanne : 00:32 It

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Episode 081: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|August 21, 2018|Uncategorized|

Episode 081: e’d Rather Be In Ihe Ring Than Wear It with special guest Frankie “Mr. Top Notch” Estrella Vacation is over! Now I’m back to reviewing Life lafter Divorce podcast week 81. Quite the colorful character this week, none other than Frankie “Top Notch” Estrella. Wow! He gave us such insight into the life of a professional wrestler. I was so unaware of that lifestyle. I do get the whole going to the gym in the middle of the night and it’s just a huge part of your personal hours and the need to work out. Frankie mentioned his Mom’s thoughts on not being with one woman and he found out that she was right. Serious girlfriends did not fit in with your lifestyle. However, married wrestlers doing their threesomes is news to me. The very thought of it never crossed my mind. But hey, I now have a new way to view wrestlers. Frankie certainly had his experience with relationships. They were all somewhat different but he learned a lot about women and himself over the years. He has also grown and got clean. He is now having fun in the comedy world and enjoying a little karaoke. It’s perfect for him. All Frankie needs

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Episode 080: Marriage, Divorce, Narcissism, & Bipolar Disorder Part 2 of 2

By Help Person|August 14, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 80: Marriage, Divorce, Narcissism, & Bipolar Disorder Part 2 of 2 with special guest Kirsten Watson Meet Kirsten Watson! Kirsten’s a mom, two-time divorcee, and a Long Beach Native. She shares her journey from meeting her first husband at the young age of 15 to her third husband, love, and happiness. It hasn’t been easy, but Kirsten’s grit and perseverance keep her moving forward. We learned so much from talking with her this week and hope that through her story, you know you’re not alone. 0:06 We start this episode where Kirsten started seeing Nick the Narcissist. The relationship started off fast. They had known each other for years before this – since high school. Nick got a job and moved in with Kirsten. Within six to eight months they got into a terrible fight. Nick stopped drinking for a month, but that didn’t last. Kirsten was supporting both of them the last few months they were together. She told him to get his shit together. 00:08 Kirsten realized she was very isolated. Nick was very jealous and Kirsten wasn’t able to talk to another man without him questioning her. Nick didn’t trust her so she kept to herself. When they’d hang out with

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Episode 079: Marriage, Divorce, Narcissism, & Bipolar Disorder Part 1 of 2

By Help Person|August 7, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 79: Marriage, Divorce, Narcissism, & Bipolar Disorder Part 1 of 2 with special guest Kirsten Watson Meet Kirsten Watson! Kirsten’s a mom, two-time divorcee, and a Long Beach Native. She shares her journey from meeting her first husband at the young age of 15 to her third husband, love, and happiness. It hasn’t been easy, but Kirsten’s grit and perseverance keep her moving forward. We learned so much from talking with her this week and hope that through her story, you know you’re not alone. 04:45 Kirsten met her first husband when she was 15 years old. They were married a couple months before her 17th birthday. Her father gave his consent. Kirsten calls her first husband the Mama’s Boy. He was very spoiled by his family and he was also a narcissist. This all became an issue later. He cut her off from all her friends and she couldn’t even talk to another man. Kirsten didn’t want to have a baby, but he insisted. Once the baby was born, he became verbally abusive and it became violent the day she left. 07:15 Kirsten was born and raised in Long Beach. Her mother wasn’t around and she was raised by her father. By the

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Episode 078: We’re Moving In Together!

By Help Person|July 31, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 78: We’re Moving In Together! With Leanne Linsky and The Boyfriend It’s time for a BIG announcement! We’re moving in together. It’s happening this month and we want to share the process with you..   01:30 We’re getting right to the point this week. We’re moving in and it’s a big deal for us. The Boyfriend has NEVER lived with anyone that he has dated. He’s moved approximately 15 moves and had roommates, but none with a romantic interest. Leanne’s moved 28 times since she was 20. She’s lived with her husbands, of course, and we know how that turned out. Leanne also tried living with two other people, but within 3 days and the other 7 weeks, the relationships ended. So this is a big deal. 4:56 Leanne is moving into The Boyfriend’s place. The Boyfriend is wondering why she does the thing she does. He’s finding he has to let go of some of his control, and at the same time, there are some things he doesn’t want changed or moved. Leanne is thinking she’s just moving her belongings in. The Boyfriend thinks her process is random and doesn’t make sense to him. Leanne is explaining that her process had to change

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Episode 077: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|July 25, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 077: Stressed? It’s time to trust your gut! with special guest Dr. Patricia May Dr Patricia May was very informative on our health issues and how to deal with them. She shared on how to lead a stress free life — physically and even more so mentally. She specifically talked about listening to our gut. The gut is our second brain.  Dr. May spends time doing an intense history on her patients. She looks for patterns to puts issues in perspective. She addresses your eating habits and any allergies to help you manage your body on a chemical level. She may even do urine, blood, allergy or even a Dutch test to help her in making your diagnosis. As an expert in the field of functional medicine, she focuses a lot on diet. Proper diet diet can help diabetics and can often reduce symptoms. Stress is a huge factor in our world today, so along with getting our digestive system in good working order, we need to take time out for fun, exercise, spirituality, sleep, and time for ourselves. It’s so nice that there is a smart alternative method to reducing our stress. It all makes sense. Dr. May summed up her thoughts with, “Step back, educate yourself,

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Episode 075: Marry. Divorce. Repeat with Leanne Linsky & The Boyfriend

By Help Person|July 10, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 075: Marry. Divorce. Repeat. with Leanne Linsky & The Boyfriend Have you OR are you willing to remarry your spouse? 02:00 Have you ever relapsed with a relationship? Gone back to the ex? Did you remarry? Leanne asks The Boyfriend and he has. He’s gone back to continue the relationship and back to someone just to hook up. It turns out it never worked out. Obviously, since he’s here with Leanne. 06:35 The Boyfriend explains that when he did get back together with one of his exes, who we’ll call Marsha. Marsha turned out to be unstable and stalker-ish. This is The Boyfriend’s way of saying she’s a crazy bitch. Marsha did end up getting professional help afterward. The Boyfriend said that Marsha actually started hitting herself, literally beating herself up in front of him. He had to restrain her and her friends had to come pick herup and help out. The Boyfriend has not spoken to Marsha since. 08:32 The Boyfriend hastried making things work with some of his other exes, but people don’t change. He thinks that when we’re younger there’s more opportunity to make it work and we have a bigger chance of trying to change or make it work. But

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