Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset

By Help Person|October 9, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Meet Estelle Gibson, CPA, Speaker, Financial & Business Coach, and Author of the upcoming book Manage Your Money, Master Your Money Mindset – 5 Steps on the Journey to Create the Business of Your Dreams. Estelle shares how her personal experience has led her helping others break free from financial dependency. Learn some of her powerful money strategies help you to move past fear, confusion, and self-sabotage so you can create the life of your dreams both in and out of relationships. SPECIAL OFFER: Free money archetype assessment http://www.journey-to-freedom.com/sma-quiz.html Links: Website: www.journey-to-freedom.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/journey2freedom Twitter: @j2freedom LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/journey2freedom/ Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:07 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast episode 88. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 and I’m the boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Welcome back to another wonderful week of… The Boyfriend: 00:00:14 Divorce Leanne: 00:00:17 Awesome. They just keep rolling. Rolling. Rolling. The Boyfriend: 00:00:22 Yes. They just keep happening. That’s how time works. Leanne: 00:00:24 You’re not going to go with me on that song are you? The Boyfriend: 00:00:25 No. I’m not doing it. Leanne: 00:00:27 Leave a girl hanging. Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate,

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Episode 085: Thoughts From Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|September 18, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 085: Overcoming the Pain of Infidelity with special guest Teri Lynnn Wilkins Teri Lynn is a life coach specializing in cheating, betrayal, and infidelity.  Teri Lynn’s story begins with her living the dream, married with two kids, and living in a nice home on a golf course. She had a large social circle and was active in charitable causes. She also cheated on her hubby, and found him unattractive. One Christmas day she shared that she wanted out. He asked if maybe they could work it out. She chose to leave it all behind. Cheating with someone can make you feel good about yourself regardless of the cost. But on the other hand, you become the bitch. Teri Lynn has experienced both cheating and being cheated on.Betrayal leaves open wounds and scars forever. She was a broken woman looking for intimacy and a way to feel good about herself. Her boyfriend was going through divorce but couldn’t just walk out. He had kids, too. After Teri Lynn’s divorce, the boyfriend and his wife were off and on again. Teri Lynn was not doing well financially and neither was her boyfriend. Teri Lynn was feeling the turmoil and guilt of what this was doing, not only

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Episode 085: Overcoming The Pain Of Infidelity

By Help Person|September 18, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 085: Overcoming The Pain Of Infidelity with special guest Teri Lynn Wilkins If you’ve been cheated on or if you’ve been the cheater, you know the pain and long-term affects it has on your life. What if you could turn it around and make it a positive? Our guest this week can just do that! Teri Lynn Wilkins is a 15 year veteran Life Coach and her specialty is cheating, infidelity, and betrayal. Teri’s clients are courageous women who transcend betrayal to become the authentic, passionate, and strong women they’ve always wanted to be. Teri Lynn shares her own personal story and how she’s gone from being the villain and the victim to a thriving life coach helping others turn their lives around. Full Transcript: Leanne : 00:07 Welcome to life lafter divorce podcast, episode 85. I am your host, Leanne Linsky. Welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. Break up! The Boyrfriend: 00:21 Is a fall week of divorce better than the summer. Leanne: 00:25 I was trying to rhyme something break up and make up or something. But yeah, I guess it just keeps getting better. You know The Boyfriend: 00:31 the fall is a beautiful season. Leanne : 00:32 It

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Episode 070: The Bride & The Best Man

By Help Person|June 6, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 070: The Bride & The Best Man with special guests Misty, Chris, and Glenn Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:08 Welcome to episode 70. I am your host, Leanne Linsky and I’m the boyfriend. Welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce, but before we jump in, let’s make sure we rate, review and subscribe. So while you’re out there today and get her done, tell us how much you love us. Why not? Why wouldn’t you? And while you’re out there checking out the website at life. Laughter, divorce.com. So boyfriend, I’m really excited about this because this is part two of. The Boyfriend: 00:00:36 Well just a continuation, part two. Part two have to move. It hurt that their, their, their experiences, their life, how they got to where they are to where they are now is is. I’m wondering, even put it as part, it’s just they’ve got this section where you hear about Chris, do you have this section about the marriage of misty and then and then her realization where we’re at right now is her marriage and how she figures out what she really wants. Leanne: 00:01:10 So we have sections a, B and c and we’re now in the

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Episode 063: Deal Breakers

By Help Person|April 17, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 063: Deal Breakers with Leanne & The Boyfriend Welcome back! Leanne and The Boyfriend discuss nut cups at weddings. Leanne wanted to revisit last week’s episode when she mentioned nut cups at weddings. A friend heard Leanne say that and suggested she don’t say it again because nut cups are old and out-dated. Nobody does that anymore. Then The Boyfriend brings up Russel Crow’s jockstrap. Someone raffled it off for $8,000. 3:42 This week’s topic: Deal Breakers. Once you’ve been divorced, do your deal breakers change? And are your deal breakers different for marriage then they are for just dating? The Boyfriend feels that deal breakers change over time. Deal breakers in high school would be different then relationships later in life. Leanne didn’t go to prom with someone with the nickname Satan. She probably wouldn’t date someone who wore Crocs with socks back then. Of course, Crocs didn’t exist then either. Leanne mentions she doesn’t really like black socks with shorts. The Boyfriend said it depends on how short the shorts are. 06:29 Remember Seinfeld? Elaine dated the close talker and many other people with annoying habits. The Boyfriend said bad manners are a deal breaker for him. He doesn’t like it when

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Episode 057: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|March 6, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 057: Fun Facts About Divorce with Leanne and The Boyfriend What a fun and lighthearted episode of divorce facts. The two of you brought out the humor with your various findings. Some were very surprising and some were expected. My favorite is the couple who were both cheating with someone over the internet only to find out it was with each other. I call them “Dumb & Dumber”. It’s not hard to believe that one third of divorce findings today include the word “Facebook”. This episode was informative and entertaining with all your fact research. Loved your lighthearted presentation. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s been married for over 50 years, has never been divorced, and would like to remain anonymous.

Episode 049: For Better or For Worse Part 2 of 2

By Help Person|January 9, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 049: For Better or For Worse Part 2 of 2 with Larry and Christina Johnson. Leanne and The Boyfriend return for Part 2 of 2 with Larry and Christina Johnson. We return to find out what Christina did next. “I I flip the switch and went smooth off on him.”  Christina had Larry come shop for lingerie with her. Lingerie that she was going to wear with another man. Christina admits that if Larry would have just showed he cared – that he was jealous, she would’ve stopped. But he didn’t. She proceded. It wasn’t until the night Christina slept with someone else that Larry decided to make some changes. Christina didn’t expect that. She thought they were 100% done and that’s why she moved on. But they weren’t done. Larry did a 180. He went back to church, he apologized for everything he’d done. He even redid that marriage proposal — he redid with a ring and on his knees at a restaurant. Larry wanted to go back to counseling so they did. Every step of the way they learned something new and got closer to God. Larry and Christina realized that they had messed up so bad, to the point where they

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Episode 026: Triple Threat

By lifelafterdivorce|July 31, 2017|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 026: Triple Threat with special guest Karen Beach As we know, divorce affects everyone. However, it affects some more than others. For instance, I’ve been divorced twice, which is two more times than I would have liked, but it happened. If I had children, they would have been affected twice, too. So what about children of divorce who grow up and have a divorce of their own? That’s a double whammie! Now those divorced children of divorce are back out there dating and run into other divorcees. Bam! That’s a 3-pointer right there. It’s hard enough handling it from one angle, but they’re getting it from all sides. How does someone handle that? Meet Karen Beach, child of divorce, divorcee, and divorced child of divorce dating other divorcees. As we call it in theater, “she’s a triple threat!” Karen’s parents divorced when she was thirteen and her dad’s bipolar disorder was creating issues. Karen was very aware of what was happening and began to take on a lot of the household responsibilities as her parent’s focus began to change. Her father’s bipolar disorder wasn’t out in the open, but as Karen sought guidance from teachers and some independent research, she eventually figured it out.

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Episode 018: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By lifelafterdivorce|June 7, 2017|Uncategorized|

Episode 018: Cheating  with special guest Letter from Anonymous Listener My heart goes out to your guest whom I’m sure is in a lot of pain. I haven’t experienced this, but I can’t deny that the thought of it makes one cringe. I would imagine that it would consume ones mind. That being said, I’m sure the emotions can be uncontrollable. Let’s hope that she has someone to lean on to help her through it. The two of you gave good advice and researched statistics which is helpful. The Boyfriend –your past experiences are enlightening in that you could forgive and work past her cheating. It does prove that it can be fixed. I hope your podcast helps her to re-evaluate thoughts and more importantly her feelings and trust. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s been married for over 50 years, has never been divorced, and would like to remain anonymous. Listen on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-lafter-divorce/id1234368345?mt=2 Listen on Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/life-lafter-divorce  

Episode 004: Losing My Religion

By lifelafterdivorce|February 28, 2017|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 004: Losing My Religion (and getting a divorce) with special guest Derick Whaley Are we ever prepared to find out someone cheated on us? We explore this and much more with Comedian Derrick Whaley, who shares his thoughts on religion and its impact on his relationships. What do you do when someone cheats on you? I always think, “oh I’d do this” or “I’d do that.” But when it comes down to it, I don’t do any this or that. I just move on. The Boyfriend admits to burning letters that his ex sent him. He hasn’t burned items that didn’t belong to him. As I think back, I have shredded pictures and even burned a few. We both agree that it’s more of a cleansing action, and not so much about getting back at the other person. However, I’ve thought about getting back at someone. I’ve even researched the effects of itching powder on Amazon. I’ll even admit that I did use an ex-boyfriends shirt to clean my toilet before giving it back to him. However, I’ve never acted out and did really mean things, and I’m glad to hear that The Boyfriend hasn’t either. We both usually just want to get away and

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