0611, 2018

Episode 092: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|November 6, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 092: Narcissist Relationships Part 2 of 2 Healing After Abuse with special guest Susan Ball Now I get it! Susan, this was the day you realized it was time to get help. In the heat of an argument, when he tried to strangle you, you ran out the front door and ran five blocks to the police station with your husband behind you. He got arrested and spent the night in jail. However…Surprise! Surprise! His girlfriend bailed him out. Susan did not know about the girlfriend until now. In conversations with her sister, Susan’s sister says, “Well I blame you. If you really want out, you need to move away and never see him again. You do not want your girls to see more of this.” Indeed, it was a time for smart decisions. This left Susan with raw emotions, guilt, shame, and confusion. Healing was needed and she had much to deal with. Susan hired a life coach who encouraged her to start a success journal. She was encouraged to write about each achievement, celebrate, and keep moving on. Have your rages and your weeping times. It helps to release your emotions. Susan has shared some of her healing with her daughters so

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0611, 2018

Episode 092: Narcissist Relationships Part 2of 2 Healing After Abuse

By Help Person|November 6, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 092: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Healing After Abuse with special guest Susan Ball Unless we’ve personally experienced a narcissist relationship, we may tend to underestimate the damage a narcissist an do. In this EP we explore the key characteristics of a narcissist with Susan Bell. Susan is the founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist. Susan shares her knowledge & personal experience to teach us how to identify & escape the toxic narcissist relationship. Meet Susan Ball, founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist and she’s on a mission to free women from their abusive relationships. Susan’s message is simple and begins once a woman escapes her abusive, toxic or ugly relationship. She wants women to aim higher, learn to recognize just how much they are worth, believe in themselves and establish healthy boundaries, as they begin to dream again and love themselves unconditionally. Susan is a passionate, fierce cheerleader who encourages women to rekindle their joy and embrace their big, bold, blissful life! Links: Website www.susanball.ca Facebook Free From Toxic Love  Twitter @LifeCoachSusan Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:05 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce, episode 92. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:09 and I’m the boyfriend.

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3010, 2018

Episode 091: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 30, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors with special guest Susan Ball Susan Bell, an expert in narcissist relationships, shared her expertise on this subject today. She also shared her told her personal experience. A narcissist: is super complimentary and immediately in love with you says all exes were super bitchy and loves to talk bad about them wants to marry you will want to move away from your friends and family of course, calls you sweetie or baby etc, just like all the women in his past. You are now one of many before you. wants children and now you become stay at home Mom , lucky you! goes out whenever he wants but not you. He’s cheating he will spend time on dating sights in public/n front of people he pretends to be an adoring husband but behind closed doors will beat you if you don’t give him sex very abusive verbally and put you down and makes fun of you And last but not least, is an out and out liar So Susan, I am looking forward to your Part 2 and learning more. You did leave us on what I call “A Cliffhanger” Each week Mom-nonymous shares her

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3010, 2018

Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors

By Help Person|October 30, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors with special guest Susan Ball Unless we’ve personally experienced a narcissist relationship, we may tend to underestimate the damage a narcissist an do. In this EP we explore the key characteristics of a narcissist with Susan Bell. Susan is the founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist. Susan shares her knowledge & personal experience to teach us how to identify & escape the toxic narcissist relationship. Meet Susan Ball, founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist and she’s on a mission to free women from their abusive relationships. Susan’s message is simple and begins once a woman escapes her abusive, toxic or ugly relationship. She wants women to aim higher, learn to recognize just how much they are worth, believe in themselves and establish healthy boundaries, as they begin to dream again and love themselves unconditionally. Susan is a passionate, fierce cheerleader who encourages women to rekindle their joy and embrace their big, bold, blissful life! Links: Website www.susanball.ca Facebook Free From Toxic Love  Twitter @LifeCoachSusan Leanne: 00:05 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast, episode 91. I am your host Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:10 And I’m The Boyfriend Leanne: 00:12

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2310, 2018

Episode 090: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 23, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist with special guest Leanne Townsend Leanne Townsend is an attorney in Toronto, Canada. Her expertise is domestic and victim advocacy. She is also a life coach. She is especially good at guiding clients through divorce and knows the smart way to go about it. When you know it’s time to get out, one of the first things to do is get every single document, social security numbers, passport, bank statements (both checking and savings), investments, etc. out of reach or access to partner. Don’t escalate into confrontation and don’t tell partner you are leaving. Get your ducks in a row and get out when he is not home. In some cases, the only contact you should have with the narcissist is through your attorney. Most of the time it’s important that you cannot be reached by him. Protect yourself and get coaching to guide you all the way. Get the support that you need, and if you need a financial planner, get one. Do this in a smart and safe manner, get on with your life, and be happy. Great advice. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s

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2310, 2018

Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist

By Help Person|October 23, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist with special guest Leanne Townsend If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you’ll need a strong support team and may want to consider an attorney who specializes in narcissism. Leanne Townsend is an attorney practicing family law in Toronto with her own firm Townsend Law. She has particular expertise in domestic and victim advocacy and women empowerment are particular focuses in her work. Leanne offers coaching programs for Divorce Preparation, Divorce Management & Divorce Recovery. In addition, she has a specialized coaching program for Divorcing a Narcissist. Links: Website: www.leannetownsend.ca Facebook: LeanneTownsendLife LinkedIn LeanneTownsendLife Instagram @LeanneTownsendLife Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:05 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce, episode 90. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:10 I’m The Boyfriend. Leanne: 00:11 Welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. The Boyfriend: 00:17 I feel like the divorce court and music or something, Leanne: 00:21 You’re the editor. Why aren’t you making it happen? Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate, review and subscribe and why not check out the website at www.lifelafterdivorce.com. We have a wonderful shop for some retail therapy. If you’re in the need, which you probably are, and hey, holidays are coming up. Why not gift

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1610, 2018

Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it

By Help Person|October 16, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it with special guest Guy Finley Wondering why relationships fail? And want to know how to avoid it? Then this episode is for you! Meet Guy Finley, bestselling author of more than 45 books and audio albums on self-realization, including “The Secret of Letting Go,” “The Essential Laws of Fearless Living,” and his brand new book “Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together.” He is the founder and director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit Center for Spiritual Discovery located in southern Oregon where he gives talks three times each week. Guy is a faculty member at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York, 1440 Multiversity, and is a regular expert contributor to Beliefnet and the Huffington Post. For more information about his new book visit www.RelationshipMagicBook.com Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/guyfinleyofficial/ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/guy_finley Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/guy_finley/ Book : Guy Finley’s new book Relationship Magic – Waking Up Together   Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:08 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce, episode 89. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 I’m The Boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Hey, welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. And while you’re out there, tuning in make sure you rate, review and subscribe. And hey, why not check out

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1510, 2018

Episode 089: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 15, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it with special guest Guy Finley Guy Finley is an author and has written 45 books. His recent book is the subject today and the title is “Relationship Magic, Waking up together”. Guy briefed us on its content – why relationships fail and how to avoid it. We all need self understanding on our own imperfections, especially in the heat of a disagreement. Lashing back inflicts anger and pain and goes back and forth. How do you make it better? Love is absent in the moment, and you are both in pain. You both need self-understanding and love is how to move past this. Love unites and brings you back together. . Harmony in nature already exists in you and it awakens in you. Your single most important resource is our truthful self. Your partner is a reflection of oneself. Harmony in a relationship is vital to move forward. I enjoyed his thoughts on this subject it does bring awareness in oneself. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s been married for over 50 years, has never been divorced, and would

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1310, 2018

Episode 088: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 13, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Estelle Gibson is a CPA and an expert on money management. While growing up, her Dad was the breadwinner and he handled all the money. He influenced her on banking and the importance of saving. However, she later became aware that her Mother had a stash for herself. Estelle got an education on money management and she did well. When she got married her husband said he would be happy to be the breadwinner. Estelle could stay home and he would take on the role of money manager. Estelle was happy to let him. RED FLAG No.1. Never make that mistake. It’s giving up your power. You need to have separate bank accounts, credit cards, and spending money. Investing in a home is different and you need to agree on payments HOA fees, utilities,and taxes. You need to know that all of this is paid regularly. At tax time you may need a consultant to help you do this. If it becomes too difficult to follow, hire a financial advisor. When it comes to money, the two of you need to be onboard in all aspects of your spending and investments. Learn

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0910, 2018

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset

By Help Person|October 9, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Meet Estelle Gibson, CPA, Speaker, Financial & Business Coach, and Author of the upcoming book Manage Your Money, Master Your Money Mindset – 5 Steps on the Journey to Create the Business of Your Dreams. Estelle shares how her personal experience has led her helping others break free from financial dependency. Learn some of her powerful money strategies help you to move past fear, confusion, and self-sabotage so you can create the life of your dreams both in and out of relationships. SPECIAL OFFER: Free money archetype assessment http://www.journey-to-freedom.com/sma-quiz.html Links: Website: www.journey-to-freedom.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/journey2freedom Twitter: @j2freedom LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/journey2freedom/ Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:07 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast episode 88. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 and I’m the boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Welcome back to another wonderful week of… The Boyfriend: 00:00:14 Divorce Leanne: 00:00:17 Awesome. They just keep rolling. Rolling. Rolling. The Boyfriend: 00:00:22 Yes. They just keep happening. That’s how time works. Leanne: 00:00:24 You’re not going to go with me on that song are you? The Boyfriend: 00:00:25 No. I’m not doing it. Leanne: 00:00:27 Leave a girl hanging. Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate,

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