Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors

By Help Person|October 30, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 091: Narcissist Relationships Part 1 of 2 Identifiying Behaviors with special guest Susan Ball Unless we’ve personally experienced a narcissist relationship, we may tend to underestimate the damage a narcissist an do. In this EP we explore the key characteristics of a narcissist with Susan Bell. Susan is the founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist. Susan shares her knowledge & personal experience to teach us how to identify & escape the toxic narcissist relationship. Meet Susan Ball, founder of Empowered Her, author, speaker, and self-worth activist and she’s on a mission to free women from their abusive relationships. Susan’s message is simple and begins once a woman escapes her abusive, toxic or ugly relationship. She wants women to aim higher, learn to recognize just how much they are worth, believe in themselves and establish healthy boundaries, as they begin to dream again and love themselves unconditionally. Susan is a passionate, fierce cheerleader who encourages women to rekindle their joy and embrace their big, bold, blissful life! Links: Website www.susanball.ca Facebook Free From Toxic Love  Twitter @LifeCoachSusan Leanne: 00:05 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast, episode 91. I am your host Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:10 And I’m The Boyfriend Leanne: 00:12

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Episode 090: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 23, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist with special guest Leanne Townsend Leanne Townsend is an attorney in Toronto, Canada. Her expertise is domestic and victim advocacy. She is also a life coach. She is especially good at guiding clients through divorce and knows the smart way to go about it. When you know it’s time to get out, one of the first things to do is get every single document, social security numbers, passport, bank statements (both checking and savings), investments, etc. out of reach or access to partner. Don’t escalate into confrontation and don’t tell partner you are leaving. Get your ducks in a row and get out when he is not home. In some cases, the only contact you should have with the narcissist is through your attorney. Most of the time it’s important that you cannot be reached by him. Protect yourself and get coaching to guide you all the way. Get the support that you need, and if you need a financial planner, get one. Do this in a smart and safe manner, get on with your life, and be happy. Great advice. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s

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Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist

By Help Person|October 23, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 090: Divorcing a Narcissist with special guest Leanne Townsend If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you’ll need a strong support team and may want to consider an attorney who specializes in narcissism. Leanne Townsend is an attorney practicing family law in Toronto with her own firm Townsend Law. She has particular expertise in domestic and victim advocacy and women empowerment are particular focuses in her work. Leanne offers coaching programs for Divorce Preparation, Divorce Management & Divorce Recovery. In addition, she has a specialized coaching program for Divorcing a Narcissist. Links: Website: www.leannetownsend.ca Facebook: LeanneTownsendLife LinkedIn LeanneTownsendLife Instagram @LeanneTownsendLife Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:05 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce, episode 90. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:10 I’m The Boyfriend. Leanne: 00:11 Welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. The Boyfriend: 00:17 I feel like the divorce court and music or something, Leanne: 00:21 You’re the editor. Why aren’t you making it happen? Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate, review and subscribe and why not check out the website at www.lifelafterdivorce.com. We have a wonderful shop for some retail therapy. If you’re in the need, which you probably are, and hey, holidays are coming up. Why not gift

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Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it

By Help Person|October 16, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it with special guest Guy Finley Wondering why relationships fail? And want to know how to avoid it? Then this episode is for you! Meet Guy Finley, bestselling author of more than 45 books and audio albums on self-realization, including “The Secret of Letting Go,” “The Essential Laws of Fearless Living,” and his brand new book “Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together.” He is the founder and director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit Center for Spiritual Discovery located in southern Oregon where he gives talks three times each week. Guy is a faculty member at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York, 1440 Multiversity, and is a regular expert contributor to Beliefnet and the Huffington Post. For more information about his new book visit www.RelationshipMagicBook.com Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/guyfinleyofficial/ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/guy_finley Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/guy_finley/ Book : Guy Finley’s new book Relationship Magic – Waking Up Together   Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:08 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce, episode 89. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 I’m The Boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Hey, welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. And while you’re out there, tuning in make sure you rate, review and subscribe. And hey, why not check out

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Episode 089: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 15, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 089: Reasons why relationships fail & how to avoid it with special guest Guy Finley Guy Finley is an author and has written 45 books. His recent book is the subject today and the title is “Relationship Magic, Waking up together”. Guy briefed us on its content – why relationships fail and how to avoid it. We all need self understanding on our own imperfections, especially in the heat of a disagreement. Lashing back inflicts anger and pain and goes back and forth. How do you make it better? Love is absent in the moment, and you are both in pain. You both need self-understanding and love is how to move past this. Love unites and brings you back together. . Harmony in nature already exists in you and it awakens in you. Your single most important resource is our truthful self. Your partner is a reflection of oneself. Harmony in a relationship is vital to move forward. I enjoyed his thoughts on this subject it does bring awareness in oneself. Each week Mom-nonymous shares her thoughts on the episode. Mom-nonymous is a wife, mom, and listener of Life Lafter Divorce Podcast. She’s been married for over 50 years, has never been divorced, and would

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Episode 088: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|October 13, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Estelle Gibson is a CPA and an expert on money management. While growing up, her Dad was the breadwinner and he handled all the money. He influenced her on banking and the importance of saving. However, she later became aware that her Mother had a stash for herself. Estelle got an education on money management and she did well. When she got married her husband said he would be happy to be the breadwinner. Estelle could stay home and he would take on the role of money manager. Estelle was happy to let him. RED FLAG No.1. Never make that mistake. It’s giving up your power. You need to have separate bank accounts, credit cards, and spending money. Investing in a home is different and you need to agree on payments HOA fees, utilities,and taxes. You need to know that all of this is paid regularly. At tax time you may need a consultant to help you do this. If it becomes too difficult to follow, hire a financial advisor. When it comes to money, the two of you need to be onboard in all aspects of your spending and investments. Learn

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Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset

By Help Person|October 9, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 088: Create financial independence and master your money mindset with special guest Estelle Gibson Meet Estelle Gibson, CPA, Speaker, Financial & Business Coach, and Author of the upcoming book Manage Your Money, Master Your Money Mindset – 5 Steps on the Journey to Create the Business of Your Dreams. Estelle shares how her personal experience has led her helping others break free from financial dependency. Learn some of her powerful money strategies help you to move past fear, confusion, and self-sabotage so you can create the life of your dreams both in and out of relationships. SPECIAL OFFER: Free money archetype assessment http://www.journey-to-freedom.com/sma-quiz.html Links: Website: www.journey-to-freedom.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/journey2freedom Twitter: @j2freedom LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/journey2freedom/ Full Transcript:  Leanne: 00:00:07 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast episode 88. I am your host, Leanne Linsky The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 and I’m the boyfriend. Leanne: 00:00:12 Welcome back to another wonderful week of… The Boyfriend: 00:00:14 Divorce Leanne: 00:00:17 Awesome. They just keep rolling. Rolling. Rolling. The Boyfriend: 00:00:22 Yes. They just keep happening. That’s how time works. Leanne: 00:00:24 You’re not going to go with me on that song are you? The Boyfriend: 00:00:25 No. I’m not doing it. Leanne: 00:00:27 Leave a girl hanging. Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate,

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Episode 087: They made one last ditch effort before ending their marriage and it worked

By Help Person|October 2, 2018|Show notes, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 087: They made one last ditch effort before ending their marriage and it worked with special guests Joel & Julie Landi After dating for nearly 9 years and then being married for almost 7, two highly driven high school sweethearts from New York were planning their divorce. They agreed to give it one last try and attended an intense weekend retreat filled with an abundance of truth telling. They agreed this was it. As they said their goodbyes, Joel asked Julie if they could just start over. A first date turned into a fresh start. Thanks to many lessons and their mastery of conflict resolution, they founded their own company, The Performance Group, to help reconcile and rebuild relationships both in business and at home. No less motivated to create great impact, income, and intimacy, they have learned the secrets of how to have one without forfeiting the others. If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. SPECIAL OFFER: Submit your name and details for a weekend immersion with Joel & Julie to julie@theperformancegroup.us Links: Visit: https://tpgpowercouples.us Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tpgpowercouples/ Joel’s LinkedIn  www.linkedin.com/in/joel-landi-8208b620  Julie’s LinkedIn  https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-landi-97931234/   Full Transcript: Leanne: 00:06 Welcome to Life Lafter Divorce podcast, episode

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Episode 086: Thoughts from Mom-nonymous

By Help Person|September 25, 2018|Thoughts from Mom-nonymous, Uncategorized|0 comments

Episode 086: When a divorced family is all you know with special guest Gianmarco Soresi I found a real insight to children of divorce with Gianmarco Soresi. His parents divorced when he was one week old. He endured years of going back and forth between them. His Dad has various girlfriends while Gianmarco was growing up. He’d be kinda nice as kids warm up. On holidays and birthdays Gianmarco always got extra presents. His Mom remarried right after the divorce. As a matter of fact, she married his Dad’s lawyer. His stepfather was strict compared to his Dad who.had the party house. His parents set up a schedule for him throughout the years. There was always a place to be. While attending college Gianmarco dated the same girl all four years with an an agreement that after graduation they would part ways. However they did still date and collaborated on writing a play together. The play was about relationships. Gianmarco wanted to perform it with her, but she moved on and married another guy. Gianmarco continues his dream and cast the play with someone else and his ex is having a baby. He’s performed the play and received rave reviews  — and continues to do so. Today Gianmarco does comedy and dates. He’s

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Episode 086: When a divorced family is all you know

By Help Person|September 25, 2018|Uncategorized|1 comments

Episode 086: When a divorced family is all you know with special guest Gianmarco Soresi How do you protect your child from divorce when that’s all he’s known? Meet Gianmarco Soresi, a child of divorce and NYC comedian on The Last O.G. with Tracy Morgan and headliner at Caroline’s on Broadway and Stand Up NY. Gianmarco’s parents split when he was only one week old and he’s been in-between ever since – spending time with mom on these days and dad on the other. He shares his own inner battle with commitment both on the podcast and in his new off-broadway show Less Than 50%. Full Transcript: Leanne: 00:00:08 Podcast, episode 86, I am your host, Leanne Linsky. The Boyfriend: 00:00:12 And I’m the boyfriend Leanne: 00:00:13 and welcome back to another wonderful week of divorce. The Boyfriend: 00:00:17 Keep coming. Leanne: 00:00:20 I thought you were going to say for sure that they keep on rolling. The Boyfriend: 00:00:22 Nope. Nope. Leanne: 00:00:24 He knew I had something to rhyme with that. Yep. Hey, while you’re out there tuning in, make sure you rate, review and subscribe and hey, why not check out the website at life. Laughter divorced.com. We have an online store with

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